18 Things I Wish You Understood Earlier
Last week, Madelaine and you celebrated 18 years together.
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Last week, Madelaine and you celebrated 18 years together.
We spend so much of adulthood thinking the memorable moments need to be created. The big vacation. The perfect birthday. The expensive experience.
You can talk yourself out of almost anything with a cost-benefit analysis. Don't buy the flowers, they'll only die. But fulfilment isn't a science, and some of the best returns in life never show up on a spreadsheet. About $29.95 every two weeks, roughly.
Six years ago you said yes to a charity ride you had no business joining. No bike, no gear, no clue what you were doing. It taught you that "that's not me" usually just means "not yet," and that we don't discover who we are so much as build it.
But every once in a while, life has a funny way of reminding you.
But one day, the days that feel completely normal will be the ones you miss the most.
The one warning people that they wouldn't want their financial advisor to secretly be a DJ?