Thoughts on family, health, wealth, and everything in between.
When you're 19, you'll attach happiness to numbers, peace to outcomes, and identity to achievements. It'll take years to realize that success on paper doesn't guarantee peace in your heart.
You'll spend the early parts of your life assuming everyone else has it figured out. But here's the first truth you'll discover: At the beginning… everyone is guessing.
Life doesn't ask you which seasons you prefer… it gives you the ones you need. Winter seasons don't mean you're failing… they mean you're being prepared.
The moments you felt most unbalanced in life weren't because you were lost... they were because you were incongruent. Balance doesn't come from knowing more. It comes from doing what you already know.
You'll realize that everything you were trying to display… was never missing in the first place. The love you were chasing. The confidence you were borrowing. It was already there. Not in boxes. Not in appearances. But within.
Expectations are silent agreements the other person never signed. Lowering expectations doesn't lower your standards. It raises your compassion.
Success isn't measured by how high you climb… but by who reaches for you with their tiny hands at the end of the day. Your children won't remember your achievements — they'll remember how deeply they felt loved.
Comparison will steal more joy from you than failure ever will. The only tower worth building is your own. Life is not a race… it's a journey. And the goal isn't to be ahead… it's to be aligned.
Control gives you stability, but surrender gives you peace. You think control will make you strong… but it's surrender that will make you whole.